A Christian YouTube starlet has shared her advice on how to go a "born once again virgin".

Vlogger Milena Ciciotti, 21, from Michigan in the US, shared tips on abstinence after getting married to her teenage sweetheart last summer.

Milena, who says she didn't have sexual practice until marriage, says abstaining is "worth information technology" – just adds that chastity can exist undertaken at any age, and it doesn't thing if you lot've had sex earlier.

She says in a video: "Information technology is never besides late to become a born over again virgin.

"It doesn't matter if you had sexual activity one time or 100 times and then you suddenly realise this is not what I desire for myself, this is not what God wants for me and I want to make a change.

"There is nothing wrong with that. Yous are no more or no less of a Christian for previously having sexual practice.

"If you make up one's mind to take a modify of heed then your sins are forgiven and you can move by that."

Milena met her husband Jordan when they were both aged xv. She says they both remained virgins until their wedding night.

The blogger, who has almost twenty,000 followers on Instagram, says her video talking almost staying a virgin until union proved hugely popular and she was inundated with messages from followers asking her how to do the same.

Milena decided then to explain how to become a 'built-in once again virgin', and how to avert temptation and stay truthful.

To those who accept already had sex, she says: "That is totally fine. We all make mistakes.

"It will non be easy and yous two will have to work at information technology a fiddling flake harder because that person has already had sex and already knows the feeling, so it is a little bit harder to put the purlieus up.

"As long as that person is willing to expect for yous specifically than I think that alone should tell y'all that ok, he or she has already forgiven themselves, I should forgive them besides, God has already forgiven them."

Milena, a devout Christian, says people hoping to become "pure" need to institute boundaries with their partner.

She advises stopping at kissing, and suggests that even lying on the sofa with a partner can bring problems. Steering articulate of oral sex activity is also a must.

"I personally recollect yous should stop at kissing." Milena says. "Don't outset touching and don't start licking. Don't exercise that because once you practice information technology is so piece of cake to proceed going and then boom."

Milena also recommends never beingness solitary in the house with a swain or girlfriend – if possible. And making certain God stays in your mind.

"Sometimes we would put a Bible on the coffee tabular array so we could accept a visual," Milena says. "God is always watching merely it tin be hard to forget that."

Milena also advises people on how to deal with sceptical family members and friends. She says nobody should ever have to explain themselves and adds that just considering sexual practice is popular and mutual out of wedlock, it doesn't make it correct.

She says that although it might feel like you're in the minority, information technology'due south the right mode to be: "You'll always feel like y'all alone and no 1 else is doing it.

"But from that other video I made at that place were a lot of people that commented on it proverb they were waiting too and I was blown abroad."

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